Seeking lifestyle domme and possible poly partner - Durham

So I am looking a lifestyle domme I'm a submissive in durham county I'm into risk play fetish that can include knives lighters flammable liquids wanna know more about that just ask I'm married and am looking a poly partner as my wife and I are poly my wife would be a pro domme and I would be a submissive but in the bedroom only I like to be controlled there outside of there I'm pretty normal I'm a very loving male born male showing non binary with lots of love to give, I'm into a type of roleplay with risk and fear I like to be tied up doused in something flammable or parts of my body ie penis or something flammable Tyed or a firework or something or a fire build on me or around me and my domme with a lighter the means that if she wanted could set me alight it's a mind fuck and not being able to move and not totally knowing what's coming is my kink watching it play out is my kink could you get into this seeking someone that likes to control my mind

Please no males contact me